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Do I need a Divorce Coach??

Wondering if you need a Divorce or Breakup Coach???


It may be hard to reach out to a professional for help right now, but it may be exactly the right time for you to talk.


There’s no right or wrong time to work with a Breakup or Divorce coach .

You might only be thinking of leaving you partner , or you may have separated but feel stuck and unable to move on.


If any of these 10 situations resonate with you ,then I know I can help you.


1 . You are unsure whether to get a divorce or separate from your partner.

You may be staying in your relationship and hoping things will get better and your relationship will go back to what it was like when you were happy, but your gut instinct is telling you that something isn’t right.

Sometimes you feel like  separating or getting a divorce  is the only way forward, other times you worry that this could be your only chance of happiness. If you are a woman, you may feel that your biological clock is ticking, and you feel this may be your only opportunity to have a family. Maybe your relationship has fizzled out and you feel there is more to life. You are worried about the expense of a divorce.


2 . Your partner has told you they are leaving, and you feel lost.

You may be in a state of  panic, shock or overwhelm. You fear what the future holds and how you will cope without your ex.  You may be dealing with the consequences of being alone and you are also worried about how you will manage financially .You are frightened on what lies ahead and need some help to process what has happened and to move forward through the divorce process. You are looking for answers as to why this has happened.

You feel like the rug has been pulled out from underneath you, and you just can’t cope.


3 . You need someone to talk to who will give you expert, unbiased practical advice

You have great friends and family, but you feel you don’t want to burden them. You know that they mean well but feel the advice they are giving you isn’t helpful and isn’t helping you to move on positively. You know that it’s time for you to heal and seek the advice of a professional that will help you move past your anger , hurt and resentment and help you move on with your life.


4 . You think your divorce means the end of your world and that you have failed.

Maybe you have been in a long relationship and have lost your sense of self. You can’t see a future without your ex and or how it is possible to ever be happy again. You may feel that you have worked hard to make your relationship work and to achieve your dream family, and now that has been shattered.


5 . You are having a high conflict divorce and are finding it hard to cope

High conflict divorces can be exhausting. You may be struggling to deal with an aggressive, manipulative and bullying ex. You may be feeling you don’t have the strength to see your divorce through ,as it is causing you so much stress and heart break, it may be impacting your parenting or career.


6 . You have no confidence communicating with your partner effectively.

You find it difficult to talk to you partner about anything, yet alone about how you are feeling. You know there will be so many decisions to make about the children, your home your finances but you don’t know how talk to your partner without it ending up in an argument or them getting angry and trying to bully you or walking out.


7 . You feel you have lost yourself and don’t know who you are now.

You keep asking yourself why  and how this happened to you and what you did wrong to deserve this. You thought you had it all, now you feel you have lost everything, including your identity. You are struggling to visualise your life alone and without your ex.

Let’s find the real you!


8 . You don’t know understand how the divorce process works.

Although as a divorce coach I cannot  give you legal or financial advice ,I  will help you to get the best team around you to support you throughout the process. With a network of contacts to suit every situation, I will help you build a team to get you through the process.

I will help you separate your emotions from the practical decisions you will need to take and give you the confidence when working with a lawyer.


9 . You are ready to make some changes and move on with your life but unsure how to.

You have grieved your relationship and are ready to move forward but are stuck as you have lost your identity as a single person. You have been co-dependent for so long on your ex that you are unclear on what you really want and where you want to go. You need to plan out your future and get a clear action plan of what you want and how to get it.


10. You are ready to start dating again but fear the prospect of dating again.

You are fed up with being the only single person in your group, and never getting invited to dinner parties as you are on your own. You have emotionally detached from your ex and feel ready to meet someone new, however have no idea how to go about it ,as it’s been a long time since  you were single . You don’t know what you want and need your ideal partner to be like. You certainly  don’t want to make the same mistakes again.


No matter what situation you find yourself in, I can help you.

Simply book a quick  20 mins FREE discovery call to see how we can work together.



Contact me directly on 07814 010 878


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